Howdy, skierbum. Welcome! Having relatives you’d like to talk to is a good reason to learn. :) For motivation, maybe buy something that you’re interested in but can’t understand (yet!). Like a video game or a book or a magazine or something. Put it where you study so that you can use it to entice you.
For me, I force myself to study every day, even if it’s only 15 minutes. It’s a 2.5 year habit. :) I’m not perfect, I don’t always want to study, but usually I sit down and then find I’m enjoying myself. I might end up studying an hour instead of just 15 minutes.
Good luck!
Cassandra